Ok, install went fine. I could not find my wireless. Plugged the computer in from the router and was on line immediately.
Then I was unable to configure, kept hitting the root password thing (Root Sudo) and would not accept my 'system password' - found that information and what it meant in the scheme of things.
Ran the suggested cmds: ifconfig, ispci, iwconfig and nothing to work with there.
I am really discouraged and ready to dump this whole thing. Why is it if I plug directly into the DSL and am online with no problems, why aren't the settings required not saved/configured for the wireless connection?

Run the command lspci - that's l for lemur NOT i for india. What is the result? Copy and paste here. (Looking for the line that says something like "network adapter".)